I'm pleased to welcome my guest today, Dr. Kaci Myers. Dr. Kaci, Speaking Freedom founder, is a devoted Certified Life Coach, Ordained Minister, Mother, Author, Intuitive Inspirational Speaker, Adviser, Philosopher, PHD., Visionary, Disabled Army Veteran, Radio Show Host, Publisher, Content Creator and Talent Consultant; who believes in Love, Faith and Enjoying Life while living out your Soul Purpose. She thrives on seeing people live their best lives, while finding peace within being their True Self and embracing their individual life's Journey.
Born and raised in Dayton, Oh, Kaci obtained her GED at the age of 17. Shortly after earning her GED, Kaci joined the US Army graduating basic training on her 18th birthday. Kaci served over 3 1/2 years in the Army before being medically discharged after returning from Iraq.
Kaci wrote and published her first book (It's My Time) in 2006. Along with self publishing her book, she began doing promotional photo shoots and speaking engagements the summer of 2006 at S.W. DeKalb H.S. for career day. Kaci ended up speaking to a classroom of students, igniting her fire to inspire change. Kaci began to finally see the prophecies previously spoken over her life to help people manifesting.
Finally mentally, spiritually and financially ready, Kaci is now pursuing her purpose while using all of her God given skills, gifts and abilities. Currently working as a Certified Life Coach with Good Head Group Interactive Virtual Learning Center, Love Gang Affiliation, creating audio books, classes, forming movie ideas, dabbling in writing poems and music, but her passion is helping people heal and fulfill their purpose. She is also freelancing as creative contributor for new businesses ventures, accepting new clients for Speaking Freedom's Life Coaching Program, Accepting interviews and Bookings for Speaking Engagements.
Kaci has been coined "Cardiologist of the Emotionally Scarred." As an Industry Leader, Dr. Kaci plans to use her influence to continue to promote Wholeness, Inner Peace, Self Love and Living a Life of Purpose.
Welcome back to a Magical Life. I'm your host, magic Barclay. I'm again joined today by Dr. Casey Myers. Dr. Casey is an army operation Iraqi Freedom War veteran. She is a non-religious licensed, ordained minister, a certified life sex and love coach, specializing in total life enhancement. and a published author. Welcome back Dr. Casey.
Kaci Myers:
Thank you for having back
Magic Barclay:
now. In our last episode, we just touched on some of the brilliant work that you can do. So can you please tell us what a certified life, sex and love coach is and what that means for the listeners?
Kaci Myers:
As a life coach, what we do is try to help you to navigate through your life, but it's a little bit different from therapy because we are not trying to dictate to you. What to do, nor do we have a specific, uh, rule book to follow. So what we do in a, um, similar setting as therapy, but it's not, is we help coach you to thinking for yourself in a way to where you make better decisions, not just one decision, but all the decisions for the rest of your life. So if I can help guide you through understanding who you. um, understanding the things that you've been through, understanding your childhood and upbringing, how that plays a part into you. Then I can change your life forever. Now, that's just the life coaching part when it comes to love and sex. Now that's a whole nother thing. So in the sex coaching part, of my business, the goal is to help to enhance your sex life. So sometimes we offer, advice about sex. I do have a Triple X Twitter page so that I can the educational process of adult learning and sexuality because, when you talk about. Sex, which is a very taboo topic. We are often left to believe that it's only for procreation and a very limited things are available. However, in my research I found that whatever you want sexually, it's available. You just have to wait for the person that identifies with your sexual desires as you do. So my goal with the sex coaching is to help to, Each individual and couple's sexual experiences, one session at a at a time. And with the love coaching, it kind of supplements both, but it is to teach you how to love yourself more, because the more that you love yourself, the better you'll love others. And, that part is really simple. It definitely deals with relationship and business. Everything is covered in my practice.
Magic Barclay:
So what are some things that people might need help with? So you said relationships. Is it just physical? Is it the mentor relationship? Is it a spiritual relationship? Like where do you find that the pitfalls are for people?
Kaci Myers:
So when it comes to helping others, it varies. everybody is different. Everybody has a different upbringing, a different background, raised in different environments, different parental structures. So, there is no finding one area of help that people need more than others. Majority of the time it is spiritual and soul healing, meaning that there are a lot of people with childhood trauma issues and then church hurt and or the manipulation that is often involved in religion, where people lose hold in sight of the. So the goal is to kind of help people to restore their understanding in God love and themselves. But generally speaking, when a person begins to love and accept themselves, when they begin to see the blessing and even the mess that they've endured, then they will. Nine times outta 10. I can't guarantee that everybody will be like this. However, in most times, um, you will become a more compassionate person towards others because you know what You needed to be forgiven of what you have gone through and how that shaped you. So it will make you look at other people with a different lens because you know that your life had its own experiences. So there is.
Magic Barclay:
I think that's wonderful. Now, we covered a lot of stuff here. Tell me about being a published author. What books have you authored and what are they about?
Kaci Myers:
So my very first book was an auto biography, written in third person. it is title, it's my time. And I wrote this, after being redeployed from Iraq, meaning that I went to Iraq, came back because I was injured. And um, when I got back, I started this journey of writing. It's my time. Originally it was Dragon. It took me a very long time to actually get started and find my groove. But when I was able to find my groove, I finished my book, which is 390 semi odd pages. within three months, I self-published my first book as I have with all of my others. And, so that was my first. It was based on my life, my experiences, and my initial introduction to Faith. my following books after that are all faith and spirituality based. So, I do have a continuation and some other books that are outlined to be written, but those have not been done. However, my books now, I have four books on faith. and it's really walking you through the process that I went through to establish my faith and to obtain the, mental clarity and, the steps that I took to be where I am today. And then the longest working project that I had have ever worked on is my book, spiritual Human Behav. And it is where spirituality, and experience meets your behavior patterns. So I break down the different behavior patterns often experienced in adults as well as the, Defense mechanisms that we use in order to kind of survive. So, those books, are all based in spirituality, understanding yourself, walking in faith and purpose. I also have another book that is, titled The Unknown Power of A New Believer, and this particular book is about how powerful I believe that people who. Initially introduced to God and or Christ being the, title for the anointing. I think that you're most powerful when you're fresh, new, what they call a baby believer, because you haven't been tainted with church or religion and all of those things. So that particular book really points out the power in being fresh and attain as a believer in God, without the limitation. So it just teaches. How to walk, be and proceed as a believer of God with the understanding of Christ as the anointing of the Holy Spirit. which is, you know, kind of the same thing. so these books all have workbooks and they are literally designed to help, to encourage and engage the readers in growth.
Magic Barclay:
Dr. Casey, what are some things that you think the listeners might need to hear today? They might be going along on their journey and something's not quite resonating or balancing for them, so what are some things that you think really need to be said?
Kaci Myers:
The first thing is give yourself time. We are living a life that we. Most of the times have no idea what is coming ahead of us. But we can always, be guided on how to move forward if we understand what has happened in the past, how the past has shaped us, and, generally try to find a direction in which we want to proceed forward. That means set some goals. It can be small goals, it can be big goals. Those goals can change in time. Write a journal. I wanna say meditate. get some time to where you can understand your own mind. Don't always surround yourself with people, unless you are in a. Of mind, which allows you to feel alone or like you may do self-harm. But the best thing that you can do for yourself is begin to learn yourself. Learn the bad, learn the good, learn the indifferent. Learn the things and understand the things that people told you not to do, to not to like about yourself. Understand your sexuality. Understand what you want so that you can know what you don't want. Oftentimes knowing what you don't. Can be more important than knowing what you want because, what you want can come in all shapes and sizes, but knowing what you don't want gives you a definite boundaries and your definite nose. There is a no-go in that area, so you don't have to juggle within your mind on what you're gonna do moving forward, and then give yourself time and grace and permission to. I don't wanna say make mistakes because I don't believe in mistakes. I believe that if something doesn't go your way, but you can learn something from it, it's a blessing because if nothing else, you know what not to do. Again, if you look at what you've gone through so that you can actually learn from it, the thing that we as people suffer from most is running from our. and running from your past will only run you right smack dead into your past. Again, it's like, if you ever watched Looney Tunes or Warner Brother type. Cartoons, bugs Bunny or anything. Road Runner when they are trying to get away or escape and then they run right into a wall or something because you're running from something that you can't avoid. The one person that's going to always be with you is you. I don't care how far you run. I don't care how far you try to hide it. The things that go on inside of you. There is no makeup, there is no surgery, there is no education. There is nothing that can heal you, but you addressing you. And so what I think that all listeners should do is take some time for yourself. Take some time to assess what peace would be like for you, and then do everything in your power to.
Magic Barclay:
I think that's a very powerful message. You know, we try and compare ourselves to other people, but we're running our own race. Mm-hmm. and I think that's something that's very clearly forgotten in the world today.
Kaci Myers:
there is a lot of competitiveness. There is a lot of, Wanting to be seen and proven and felt Val validated. And a lot of that is because, oftentimes growing up and in life, um, people always tell you what's wrong, but very few tell you what's right. People always point out the bad, but very few point out the good. So as a person, as an individual, Over time, that can tear your spirit down. But if you begin to see the value in you and you begin to really evaluate yourself, even the bad things with you aren't necessarily bad. A lot of times people say, well, you shouldn't have a bad attitude. You shouldn't do this and you shouldn't do that. But sometimes as a giver, as a spiritual Intuitive. You have to have a defense because if not, then people will take advantage of you. So having a bad attitude isn't bad, but you gotta know when to use it. You know? You can't just. Flip off at everybody, but there are times in which you need to have attitude to protect yourself, to stand your ground guard, your parameter, your family, your perspective, and all of those things. So when we really realize that even two children in the same household can experience two totally different realities, then we'll have peace of mind for ourselves in this.
Magic Barclay:
Amen to that. I just love that message. Now, Dr. Casey, people can find you on Instagram at Speaking Freedom. You're also on Twitter Speaking Freedom, and your website is speaking freedom tv.org. I really suggest listeners that you jump on over to that website. You'll laugh, you'll cry. You'll think it's a little bit naughty sometimes. I did Sorry Dr. Casey, but it's okay. You know what, it's, it's a fabulous website and there's just so much information at your hands there. Thank you again, Dr. Casey, for joining us. I really appreciate your time.
Kaci Myers:
I really appreciate you having me. It was a great convers.
Magic Barclay:
Fantastic listeners, thank you for your time. This was your episode 1 73. In 1 74. Alison Blad will be joining us now. She married a Viking and her life changed, so that is a story to look for. Thank you again for your time. Go forth and create your magical life.